Surround yourself with positive energy, positive conversations and positive people in your day to day and work on your darkness in a mediative, creative or therapeutic setting. You must make and use times set aside to feel and work through the darkness, however often works for you, but spend your day to day having uplighting connections and with whatever brings pure joy to your soul.
aphrodite is the greek goddess of beauty & love. she is a great goddess for a love witch & will guide u if u ask her.
attributes & how to find ur inner love goddess in ur life:
shells. aphrodite was brought to the world by uranos whose genitals fell into the ocean. aphrodite was formed by the water of the sea & the sperm of him. she came to life on a very big shell. shells represent the feminine energy & stand for the bonding of aphrodite to the sea.
sea water. just like the shell, sea water represents the connection of aphrodite & the sea.
white feathers. white feathers represent the purity & grace of a swan, which is one of her animals.
romantic stuff. one of the biggest gifts of a witch is her intuition. what feels lovely to u? what makes u feel romantic? u can write this things in ur grimorium for later usage.
light clothes. pastel & tulle r ideal. dress like a princess. but if u don’t feel like this, u can use different fabrics & colours too! magic is all about ur wellbeing & u know best what’s good for u. u can dress like a tomboy & still have a charming, feminine aura. it’s all about ur charisma.
makeup. just like the clothes. what feels right for u. mascara, rouge, lip gloss & highlighter may be cliche but u know best for urself.
pamper urself. take a bath. do a facial. u deserve only the best & u r the only person who can give that to u.
be charming. i know, stuff like this is easy said, but don’t let ur negative emotions control u. don’t fake to be happy but take ur time for others & listen to them. “love” is not about sex & stuff, love is about friendliness, caring & happiness.
how to call aphrodite:
how can aphrodite help me?
if ure a witch who isn’t very good at doing spells & prayers by urself (just like me); here is a short affirmation for aphrodite for rituals & other magic work.
in the name of magic
i, [y/n]
solicit for the presence of our eternal goddess of love
aphrodite
i ask for ur blessing for my magical actions
so that I can spread beauty & kindnesa to the world
perform your divinity through me
for that i ask
i, [y/n]
love is very powerful. some people say it is the most powerful in the world. if u wanna cast a huge love spell, aphrodite can help u w/ it. she’s also able to bless ur day, if u do a prayer for her in the morning. a love spell can be a self appreciation ritual, a spell to heal a broken heart, a spell for friendship or a (inner) beauty ritual. her son aeneas can stand by ur side if u have to face an uncomferiblae situation. her power can be connected w/ the unicornian magic, which would make it even more effective.
“Stop apologizing. You don’t have to say sorry for how you laugh, how you dress, how you make your hair, how you speak. You don’t have to be sorry for being yourself. Do it fearlessly. It’s time to accept this is you, and you gotta spend the rest of your life with you. So start loving your sarcasm, your awkwardness, your weirdness, your unique sense of humor, your everything. It will make your life so much easier to simply be yourself.”
We have to take responsibility and become aware that no matter what happened in our past, we are capable of rewriting our story, of building healthy self-esteem. The best is:
There are no secrets to it. It’s changing the opinion that you have of yourself by modifying the beliefs you have about yourself, your life, your abilities, and your intrinsic value and the book you hold in your hands will help you with it. It will help you get rid of damaging beliefs like “I’m a helpless victim and have no power over what happens in my life,” “I’m not good enough,” “I don’t deserve good things in my life,” “There is something bad in all of us.”
If you make the effort and time to work on your self-esteem, the rewards will be awesome:
Higher self-confidence, better social relationships, better work relationships and just making peace with your life are some of them. Criticism from others won’t bother you anymore. You will be able to freely express your thoughts, feelings, values, and opinions because your self-worth no longer comes from the acceptance of others. You’ll be better able to deal with difficulties, anxiety, depression, and the inevitable hardships that arise. You’ll simply experience more happiness and enjoyment in all areas of your life.
Nurse The Soul 